Why is it so important we talk about this? Some people are out there cruising with the intent of taking advantage of our community, and they are counting on us to feel ashamed.
The internet is a playground for anonymity. It is not your fault. You do not have to report it to police. You do not have to tell your friends.
The shame felt after being the victim on this type of crime is rough enough. What do we mean by shame? Or that this is what you get for cruising online?